With all the drama and pop culture surrounding union, it’s no surprise that so many Christian marriages are ending in divorce. But the reality is, it does not have to be this way.
As a Christian spouse, here is what this means to you. If you can comprehend the power of God within you to overcome any weapon that the enemy gifts, you can create a totally new marriage.
Now, I know that your husband has a duty too, but this trip to a happy marriage can begin with you… if that is what you want.
What 3 important actions are they?
1) Realize that the devil sets you up to make you mad because he knows your weaknesses or regions of growth. As an example, if you do not like having sex, ask yourself why. Sex among other things frequently plays a huge part in the marriage relationship. In the earlier years of our today twenty-year union, I couldn’t fully enjoy sex due to the baggage of previous relationships.
But rather than wallowing in self-pity and blaming other guys for why I could not enjoy my husband in a romantic manner, I took action and worked to break the spirit ties of my past so that I could give my all to my husband in the bedroom.
2) Consistently forgive your husband. Give him the space and elegance to grow. You need him to do the exact same for you, do not you?
This doesn’t include abuse and serial adultery. If this is true, I encourage you to seek support from a faith-based third-party like a Pastor, counselor, or business that specializes in these regions.
I will be honest, for several years, (yes, as a Christian), I didn’t like praying. In actuality, I dreaded it because I felt like I had been saying the exact same thing daily, yet getting no results.
Out of these 3 keys, I recommend first beginning your journey to a happier marriage with prayer. Being able to pray properly for your union isn’t complicated.